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 I made it
If there was one important thing about life that this four daunting years in my university has taught me is...
it doesn't matter how you start, as long as you have that will, nothing is too late. 

To my juniors and all those out there still struggling as an undergraduate, perhaps even on the verge of giving up yourself, please don't. I did poorly in my first year, but my results in my last year have proven that you definitely can turn the game around. It's no longer a question about can or cannot, but about whether you want it.

It was never my intention to have this blog serve a preaching role, cause I for one is not in the position to preach, but having lived 23 years, there are a lot of self-reflection that I hope to do. Now that I have officially put a fullstop on the 16 years of learning, I will be heading to a new phase in life, one that remains largely uncertain and equally perilous.

If I have to use just one word to describe my current emotion, INSECURE  

One can ask how prepared I am for my new challenges, my answer would indefinitely be I'm not. I must admit I am in a phase of confusion and lost. Identity crisis? Scrambling to fix a new identity that thrives in a workplace environment, preferably one that puts charisma and capabilities in the foreground. As much as the latter, the former quality is especially essential in  raising your likability, drawing colleagues to you like a social butterfly, which will come in handy in the inevitable office politics. Some may say never to partake in office politics, but it never was a choice. Many times, you get drawn in without even knowing you did. More often than not, everyone during their working life would in some way become the center of gossips and resentment.   

That's all from me. 
"I made it" was Posted On: Sunday, 1 June 2014 @20:14 | 0 lovely comments

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