Golden Rule
Treat others the way you want others to treat you.
I'll probably be abiding by this moral compass as a lifelong principle. It's not a foolproof way to get past your days safely and get you away from danger zones, but it definitely is a safeguard for you cause it makes people think twice when they want to be nasty to you or even blow their top at you.
You're in fact building up a psychological warfare without them knowing.
How?
Be an Angel! Yes I mean it. Just treat everyone so nice that when they decide to backstab you or 'frontstab' you, others will naturally support you emotionally or physically. The devils will later get their karma for hurting the angel. As a matter of fact, it's hard to bear a grude against an angel.
Another thing is to stay clear of politics and refrain from hating on anyone, though clearly it's difficult. I'm still in the midst of neutralize myself and i can only say... 頑張って!
(Source: MoMozzz32)
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because small things matter
Name: Xuan | 千羽 久美子 | 채미선
Residing in: Singapore (I'm 100% Singaporean!)
School: NUS, Communications and New Media
Birthday: 25/11
Status: Single (for now *-*)
It is a little late when I decide to start this blog, but it was also at this time when I believe that blogging will benefit me in the long run. There have been many instances where my tiny brain was so overwhelmed with thoughts and feelings that it was on the verge of explosion, regardless whether they are positively or negatively charged. Bottled feelings, as most said, aren't exactly healthy. Then I chanced upon several of my friends' (both real and virtual) blogs and realised that it could be a perfect avenue to unleash and reflect upon all these fragments of memory, emotions and thoughts.
My mystery: why do some people choose to display all their unhappiness, anger and frustration externally, and transfer them to the lovely people around. Many a times, a simple smile to the people you communicate with makes the cold world seemed much more live-able. In Singapore, it is difficult to see a smile on one's face, it is even more rare to have one to smile to you. This clearly reflects why she is ranked high in the unhappiness index. I wonder...is it really that demanding for one to give even the slightest smile or warmth to the people around. Perhaps, we are all just too obsessed with personal achievements and plagued by the underlying jealousy and competition in this 'dog-eat-dog' country.
about your site
Flavours of Life will be where I document some of those human mysteries I observe in my surroundings which most choose to ignore. It can be extremely interesting to stop, observe and reflect on them because you may be surprised by the sort of enlightenment one can gather from them. It is also here where I seek mental relaxation as it provides me with an escapism from the harsh reality. I will also use this space to immerse in my obsession for entertainment (Well, I can't quite move away from this since it is one of my main source of virtual happiness)
Travel to Japan 
